Nonverbal Messages
Nonverbal Messages
A
nonverbal message is a message that requires no words but rather body language.
This can include pointing, nodding, or other forms of expression communicating
your message. As human beings, we can gather a lot of information from
nonverbal messages. Nonverbal communication can tell us how others are feeling,
such as facial expressions, as well as other communication tactics. Everyone
should consider other cultures’ views on certain nonverbal messages. It is
common in America to shake somebody’s hand, but in another country it might not
be acceptable. It is important to pay attention to the nonverbal language,
appearance, and behaviors of other cultures.
Nonverbal
communication may not involve words, but it speaks volumes. Taking into
consideration the nonverbal language of another culture is necessary when
interacting with people. If you are not careful, your nonverbal language can be
seen as disrespectful to another culture. For example, according to an article
from Magnify
Mind, keeping eye contact in Western cultures is a sign of attentiveness.
Meanwhile, in African and Asian cultures eye contact can be seen as
disrespectful or confrontational. So, while some nonverbal language is
acceptable in one culture, it might not be in another. This can be fixed by
researching the culture and finding out what is acceptable and what is not.
Appearance is another aspect to be aware of.
Appearance
can tell someone a lot about who you are. As an American travelling in the UK,
I tend to stand out. I wear bright clothes, American branded items, blue jeans,
t-shirts, sports clothing, and more. Meanwhile, I see British people wearing
dark clothing, business style clothes, hair down, and well put together. You
can tell that I am more laid back, comfortable, and casual. However, the
British people look elegant, ready to go, and proper. It has been interesting
to see firsthand the cultural differences in our everyday lives. Another key
factor is eye contact.
As
stated before, eye contact can have a range of interpretations depending on the
culture. England is much like the United States in this department; eye contact
can be seen as attentive. When having a conversation with someone, it is polite
to look at them while they are speaking. When I have been having a one-on-one
conversation with Britons, we talk quietly and look at one another.
From an
article from Oratory
Club, they reiterate the idea that eye contact is important in British
culture. Eye contact show respect, sincerity, and attentiveness. Another way
the British show politeness towards others is a handshake when greeting
someone. They also wave to people to say hello. Personal space is also
important – keeping an arm’s length away shows respect for your comfortability.
Britons also tend to control their facial expressions, maintaining a pleasant
facial expression. Smiling or frowning too much in a conversation is viewed as
inappropriate. British people also have good manners – they say “please” and
“thank you.” They also have exceptional table manners that include keeping
their elbows off the table and using their silverware correctly. They have been
perceived to be polite and proper.
American
nonverbal language is different from British nonverbal language. Americans are friendly
and have various facial expressions. They smile and show other obvious facial
expressions very clearly whereas British people are more conserved with their
facial expressions. It can be interpreted as pushy or overdone. Americans will
try to be sincere and enthusiastic but taken the wrong way and thought of as
loud and rude.
In the
end, nonverbal communication is just as important as verbal communication. It
is important to learn appropriate nonverbal communication with people of other
cultures. Be respectful of other cultures’ customs and their communication
tactics.
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